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Affairs

Affairs show a strong liking of two people. Age, family background, marital status even beauty can't be a hurdle. Generally we tend to suppress desires, especially females though many factors have a role in it yet when any emotion is suppressed it has an intense force the next time. Knowingly when sexual feelings are suppressed it is in search of a vent. We give importance to income, living standard, education, property accumulation as assets but the force to live comes from inter-personal relationship which is completely ignored and given least importance. Everyone needs acceptance and a strong desire to live.Without it a person loses interest in life. When a marriage is fixed mostly horoscopes are matched to see how suitable the pair would be for married life but so many arranged marriages fail and without any such love marriages are seen to be successful. The main thing is understanding and fulfillment. Our culture doesn't allow a woman to express her desires at all, so f...

Adoption

Education and job of girls is getting priority nowadays thus late marriage has become common, as a result delayed conceptions and related problems have turned attention towards test tube babies. The couples find it really tough to cope up with the expenses for getting a baby. Still people hesitate at the thought to adopt a baby, rather than waiting endlessly in agony it's much better option. Age, mental stress, quality time spent together and physical health count a lot. Frequent consumption of fast food, cool drinks, unhealthy food habits and lack of adequate rest have very important role in conception. Planning for many things like own home, better job, secured income etc take most of the quality time. Baby is not given adequate and timely importance and then remains frustration, disappointments, pain and worries. This topic is so much painful that can not be expressed in words, till you do not have a baby. Though it is completely personal thing still people are so fond of kno...

Prostitution

So easily people comment on prostitution as if by birth they are in this profession. If our eyes can cross their smiling face we can see the pain behind. I have seen very closely the pain they keep buried inside. We see white as a pure colour but behind it are hidden red, green and blue like violent colours in a certain combination. After marriage once I had gone to sea-shore and while enjoying the cool breeze felt lost, suddenly a pretty girl attracted my attention. She was inviting my husband in alluring style to spend time with her, I could not resist myself and observed her minutely. Wearing a loose attire she seemed to evoke desires in even a female than no need to tell about males. My husband simply turned down her mood in a rough manner and she left the spot without the slightest trace of any emotion on her bright face. I asked my husband why he treated her so harshly and he replied that he hated them very much. It's such an easy thing to say but are they culprit? A mal...