Affairs
Affairs show a strong liking of two people. Age, family background, marital status even beauty can't be a hurdle. Generally we tend to suppress desires, especially females though many factors have a role in it yet when any emotion is suppressed it has an intense force the next time. Knowingly when sexual feelings are suppressed it is in search of a vent. We give importance to income, living standard, education, property accumulation as assets but the force to live comes from inter-personal relationship which is completely ignored and given least importance. Everyone needs acceptance and a strong desire to live.Without it a person loses interest in life.
When a marriage is fixed mostly horoscopes are matched to see how suitable the pair would be for married life but so many arranged marriages fail and without any such love marriages are seen to be successful. The main thing is understanding and fulfillment. Our culture doesn't allow a woman to express her desires at all, so from ages countless love stories have another woman to create a triangle just because the pair lack warmth in relationship. Sex is essential part of marriage which can't be denied. In the long run we ignore the most essential thing for life and regret later.
In ancient age sex was given much importance even in temple walls we can see the sculptures, Kaamsutra is depicted in the sacred walls of almost every renowned temple. Later somewhere due to the invasions our mentality underwent drastic changes and thus ladies got ill-treatment and harassments. Our Indian culture gave importance to all the essential aspects of life. Mathematics, Medicine, Astrology, Sculpture, Art, Music, Dance, Surgery, Martial Arts, Painting, Writing and Singing etc to list a few. We lacked awareness and trusted our very own neighbour land people who robbed us of our assets to the extent of India getting anonymous.
In olden era the kings used to appoint courtesans to entertain as well satisfy their needs and those were skilled in every type of artistic and intricate things even poisoning their opponents with a strong kiss!! They were called Poisonous Dames!! We knew each thing essential. Now it's traces are found in a few states.
Affairs are just an expression of change from monotonous life which suffocates a person to death. In a person's heart so many desires are suppressed so when occasion comes automatically the suppressed desires get a vent. If a woman is tormented in a family and blackmailed, for the emotional bond for how long she can sustain her normal attitudes? In mostly average families you can note thousands of woman who sacrifice their life for the sake of children. Ultimately the children too tend to forget their mother and consider her as only an unwanted burden.
If a male has extra-marital affair again society gives liberty blaming the wife instead of the male. In rare cases though similarly if a lady has any such relationship the family shuns her as immoral and unworthy of normal family life. As far our double standards are concerned we can never gain happiness in the real sense. Woman being supportive by nature adjusts to a great extent but every stage has some demands. Constant lack of anything converts a person's thinking radically, there are great chances of these being permanent. Do never take things for granted and be considerate of your spouse sentiments and emotional needs. Heaven is in harmonious relationships so we can experience all the heavenly pleasures being at home free of cost!!
When a marriage is fixed mostly horoscopes are matched to see how suitable the pair would be for married life but so many arranged marriages fail and without any such love marriages are seen to be successful. The main thing is understanding and fulfillment. Our culture doesn't allow a woman to express her desires at all, so from ages countless love stories have another woman to create a triangle just because the pair lack warmth in relationship. Sex is essential part of marriage which can't be denied. In the long run we ignore the most essential thing for life and regret later.
In ancient age sex was given much importance even in temple walls we can see the sculptures, Kaamsutra is depicted in the sacred walls of almost every renowned temple. Later somewhere due to the invasions our mentality underwent drastic changes and thus ladies got ill-treatment and harassments. Our Indian culture gave importance to all the essential aspects of life. Mathematics, Medicine, Astrology, Sculpture, Art, Music, Dance, Surgery, Martial Arts, Painting, Writing and Singing etc to list a few. We lacked awareness and trusted our very own neighbour land people who robbed us of our assets to the extent of India getting anonymous.
In olden era the kings used to appoint courtesans to entertain as well satisfy their needs and those were skilled in every type of artistic and intricate things even poisoning their opponents with a strong kiss!! They were called Poisonous Dames!! We knew each thing essential. Now it's traces are found in a few states.
Affairs are just an expression of change from monotonous life which suffocates a person to death. In a person's heart so many desires are suppressed so when occasion comes automatically the suppressed desires get a vent. If a woman is tormented in a family and blackmailed, for the emotional bond for how long she can sustain her normal attitudes? In mostly average families you can note thousands of woman who sacrifice their life for the sake of children. Ultimately the children too tend to forget their mother and consider her as only an unwanted burden.
If a male has extra-marital affair again society gives liberty blaming the wife instead of the male. In rare cases though similarly if a lady has any such relationship the family shuns her as immoral and unworthy of normal family life. As far our double standards are concerned we can never gain happiness in the real sense. Woman being supportive by nature adjusts to a great extent but every stage has some demands. Constant lack of anything converts a person's thinking radically, there are great chances of these being permanent. Do never take things for granted and be considerate of your spouse sentiments and emotional needs. Heaven is in harmonious relationships so we can experience all the heavenly pleasures being at home free of cost!!
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