A Stroll down the Memory lane..,

What do we mean by family, A married couple and their children is a family. Usually in a middle class family it is correct. As far I have observed in most of the families husband is the bread winner and wife is expected to manage home. We rear female child in such a way that she manages the duties of a mother well. Automatically a girl is trained to copy her mother. Mostly ladies have to sacrifice their identity to get a smooth atmosphere at home. Its expected and also done in automatic manner. After marriage girls adapt themselves according to the members of the new family to get acceptance easily. Here only the seed is sown though unknowingly. Till they have their family the thought of individuality never comes to their mind. They are content in family completely. As the children cross a certain age and get ready to set their lives which is also quite natural thing, the mothers feel insecure and little lonely due to the slack in their tight schedule, to fulfill the needs of the ch...

Our society is very cruel towards woman though it's bitter but a stark reality. So many of ladies unfortunately have to face the circumstances of being a lone survivor, sometimes by choice and many times due to husband's demise. Whatever be the reason, our society immediately adopts a rude attitude towards them like a jail warden on duty, and observes every move very very minutely though in any way not supportive yet too eager to watch, comment and of course give mental torments.   I often wonder why our society is doing such a low thing to so called highly respected ladies? Hypocrisy is the name for this duplicate attitude in my dictionary. Though am little bitter, but then truth always is bitter. One of my close friend unfortunately lost her spouse in an accident, as expected she had no option than to work to earn a living for her 2 children. She being educated could find a "decent" job. The colleagues in her office were initially sympathetic then gradually accep...