A Stroll down the Memory lane..,

Woman though strong yet express her agonies, pains to someone whereas on the contrary man considered as stronger have the least thoughts about expressing or should say give vent to their feelings because of their rearing. I met a friend after a long span and was beyond limit surprised to note how lonely a man can feel and how hard try to conceal his feelings to keep himself locked in a cocoon! Self made cocoon to show his manliness or maintain the standards set by our own loved ones! The smile of a person apart from age and sex barriers can be as sweet as a child if the spirit is alive! What efforts do we apply once the children have grown to a certain extent but is a noteworthy thing! I have seen 28 years boys trying hard and then breaking like a small child, often wonder why we are so blind!! The experience made me think WHY do we follow this partiality towards our counterparts? It's deep down mingled in our bloodstream which must be changed. On the slightest pretexts nowadays ...

In most of the families old parents are treated as a burden. Children learn lots of positive qualities from elders without any efforts like adjustment, reverence, politeness, self control and above all patience and sharing which is a rare thing when both the parents are working and family is nuclear. Children tend to take negative decisions in a critical situation very easily these days whereas it was not commonly seen earlier. Slight restrictions also make children upset to the extent of suicide because they lack patience and control. A friend of mine shocked me one day when I was on my way to hospital with lunch for my mother- in-law who suffered a stroke at that time. It was scorching hot and I had to walk almost for half an hour. She met me on the road, asked me, "Why in such a hot climate you are taking so much trouble? Instead you can put them in home for aged people, they take really good care and you know even do the last rites after their death. We need only pay t...